You can find almost anyone who live on this planet in the Social media platform like Facebook. So as a guy you have wide opportunities to meet and impress millions of single women in the cyberspace.Every one knows to chat but the question here is how many guys do actually know how to impress a girl on chat and succeeds in setting up a physical date?
Trust me i am not going to waste your time by giving a boring lecture. But what I am gonna do is, teaching you some brilliant hacks from the scratch.
As you are seeking the ways to impress a girl online, I assume you already have found a girl who is on your friend list and you are trying to fix a date or trying to make her fall in love with you. Cheers dude! Both of them are easy. You can use the following tips to impress any random girl too.
Step By Step Guide To Impress A Girl (Right From A Hi To A Physical Date)
Beware! Your First Online Chat Is Like Your First Physical Date
Finding a girl online is pretty simple. But remember if the girl you try to impress is someone, you don’t want to miss out (may be your secret crush) the you should play really safe. Because your first conversation is like your first date. Based on the impression you create in your first shot when next time you try, you may get a chance to chat with her or get a drop off. So plan ahead!
Step 1 : Get Familiar With Her Social Media Profile
If you want to get a guaranteed response, it’s important to do some background processes before firing your initial hi. First thing to be accomplished is “Get familiar with her profile”.
Spend some time to go through her profile and get to know her interests, previous posts she shared, likes, dis-likes, images, communities and conversations in which she is been active and so on. If she has integrated her pinterest profile with her Facebook, check out the pins she has added recently. These all will help you figure out what kind of person she is. It will also help you get along with her in your future conversations.
Step 2 : Make Your Presence To Be Notified Slowly
Now you are going to make yourself familiar to her without uttering a direct Hi.
[symple_box color=”yellow” fade_in=”false” float=”center” text_align=”left” width=””]Leave a humorous or positive comments on her new posts, status updates and videos. Do not hit any cold comments though.[/symple_box]
If she actively participates in any communities or pages, join in those and make comments for the posts which she comments.(Do for others post too). For example if she likes the pages Game of thrones or Go home you drunk, you too like those pages and pass your funny comments.Repeat these regularly at least for 2 weeks. The main idea behind these activities is “creating an impression like you two have many things in common”.
If every thing goes well, she will notice you at certain stage. Her next move will be checking your profile to know who you are. This is where your task of “Profile clean up” comes in.
Step 3: Make Your Profile More Impressive
[symple_box color=”yellow” fade_in=”false” float=”center” text_align=”left” width=””]80% of girls have the habit of checking the profile whenever they get a friend request or hi from the strangers. Especially when it comes from a guy. [/symple_box]
So keep your profile look genuine and charming.
Following are some of the Do’s and Don’ts that help you create an adorable guy profile
- Immediately delete all your nudity contents & controversial posts if you have done anything in the past.
- Make some interesting posts and involve in your friends conversations regularly. Obviously it will give your profile a more legit look.
- Keep a profile picture that genuinely shows yourself. Generally having a picture with your pet will attract any girl and will make them think you like an awesome guy to have a friendship with.
- Always post the images in which yourself and your friends are dressed neatly. Also post images which remind the beautiful moments you spent with your friends during your hang outs or at some parties.
- Make her know that you hit likes and post comments in the groups and communities along side with her where she participates actively. When your comments are humorous and sensible, she will definitely get impressed. It will also develop a curiosity to visit your profile often.
- Showcase yourself as a caring and socially responsible person through your posts.
- Avoid posting the photo shopped or fake profile pictures in facebook or any other social media
- Do not let yourself to get tagged with the bad pictures uploaded by your friends or any.
Step 4 : Now It’s Time To Send Out Your First Message
You have successfully completed the pre-process. So now you are ready to send your first hi. But hang on. If you are going to ping a simple hi, i suggest you to drop that idea right now. Because you have a better way of sending it.
[symple_box color=”yellow” fade_in=”false” float=”center” text_align=”left” width=””]As a rule of thumb, unless otherwise the girl whom you want to chat with, is your friend or co worker, you wouldn’t get a reply to your simple hi.[/symple_box]
On an average every girl on the social networking sites like facebook gets 10 hi messages every day from the unknown guys. This is why you have to go with an interesting chat starters like
– May I disturb the busiest person in the world for a minute to say a hi
– Do you know me but I know you somehow
– I know it’s none of my business but I’m just curious to say a hi to you
Once you hit a hi ,wait for the response patiently. Do not send so many messages. It will make her mad. Before getting to know how to impress a girl on chat, learn some basic manners that give you a gentle man image.
Step 5: How Make Interesting Conversations?
You may feel shy when you talk to your opposite sex. It is natural. But, have this point in your mind. You are not trying to impress a monster. So you don’t need to work hard to gain her impression. Just sit back and Relax .The girl you are trying to impress may be gorgeous but when your effort goes in vein, just tell yourself there are loads and loads of single women are out there that too within your reach.
Online chats are more convenient than the physical dates. Because you don’t need to worry about how you look. This is why impressing a beautiful girl via chat is damn easy and convenient than trying to impress her in person.
You Got A Reply. So How To Initiate The Conversation?
You sent a message and she has replied too. Now the turn is yours. You can’t expect her to start the conversation. Start the conversation by introducing yourself. To impress a girl , you need to be a good speaker too.
Things To Be Considered While Introducing Yourself
You both barely knows each other. So it will not be fair if you straight away jump off into her personal life. It’s good to start with how is she doing and what she do in her life.
Confront how you added her before she asks. You can say like you love her posts or comments given in the community where you both have membership. So thought of adding her as a friend etc.
Turn into a good listener when she speaks. Girl loves the boy who listens more during the initial stages. In order to acknowledge for what she says, send your responses quite often with some fun emoticons. You can find hundreds of emoticons in online dating websites. Make use of these to flirt with the girl of your interests.
What Should Be Your First Conversation?
She have just visited your profile before hit a hi to you. So be yourself during the conversation. If you try to fake it to someone else whom you are not, she will catch you red handed and it may make a bad impression.
You can compliment her posts and profile pictures but do not over do. After having a casual talk, try reaching a common point that matches with your both interests. Try to be humorous and crack some jokes in between. Keep your conversation brief and end your chat like “bye for now”.
How To Proceed And Turn Your Conversations More Interesting ?
Once you both know bit better than in your profile, after the initial conversation you can ask her some impressive questions like whether she is a dog person or cat person, what kind of music she listens, what her goal is etc.
[symple_box color=”yellow” fade_in=”false” float=”center” text_align=”left” width=””]May be like after a month of conversation you can start to show your care, respect and can also provide a hint on how you feel about her.[/symple_box]
Try to sound interesting during your chats. If she had a rough work day, you can talk to her in a comforting manner. If she says she was sick yesterday, ask her how she feels on the following day.
Continue to like and post comments like before. But now one step ahead you can message her after you post your comments on her pictures and interest.
Never try to impose your thoughts on her. If you find that she gets bore on any topic don’t take it any further. Change to some other topic.
Even you don’t really require, ask her suggestions on the things she is excelled at. It will make her think that you are respecting her opinions. Girls just can’t resist when you ask them the recommendations.
Let her know the things she never heard of. But never ever treat her like she don’t know anything even if it’s true.
Step 6 : Stay Away From These Online Chat Killers
Avoid triggering “ then ??? “
It shows that you are running out of stuffs and not interested.
If you are getting then from the other end, it may signals anyone of the following
- You are boring
- She wants you to change the topic.
Never respond With Hmm..
Next to then, hmm is another online chat killer which also shows the lack of interest. You can use okay in the place of hmm.
Surprise Her Often Through E-cards Or Messages
For a girl you hardly knows her, you can’t send chocolates or flowers. But you can send her e-cards carrying the message how much she mean to you and how much you miss her. Show a little care. Girls love the person who cares her the most.
Step 7 : Invite Her To Take Up A Video Chat
Now you have mastered the art of how to impress a girl on chat (Text). So its time to take your online dating to the next level. Ask her whether she can chat with you through web cam. But you should be very careful at this stage. Find a right time before you ask her. She shouldn’t think you like you are the one who shows interest on her physical beauty alone.
Step 8 : Set Up A Meet
So after a moth of text and video chats, finally you got to knew each other. At this stage you can casually ask her whether is it possible to have a cup of coffee or eat a bite with her. Do not rush it up though. Rather than directly asking her the number or meet up, it’s good to go with the flow. You don’t need to schedule a meeting at a 5 star hotel or a costly restaurant.
When you see her, never hesitate to admire her beauty. When you do, make sure you don’t sound vague in giving your appraisals. Try to be specific. Tel her like “You have a gorgeous eyes, lovely hair etc”. Once you saw her face through a webcam, you can say her like ” My webcam had a very tough time in handling our conversation , I think it must have stunned with your beauty”.
Surprise Her With A Gift
Who on earth hates the surprises? Wherever you meet, surprise her with the gift to her interest and again it does not need to be so expensive. Girls only value the way you present the gift to her not the money you spend.
Once you get the attention of a girl, it will become easier to impress her in a day to day live. Because you have already got some cool place in her heart, keep strengthening your relationship and become a master on how to impress a girl on chat.